BDSM Sex Dictionary

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Pathologization

Pathologization means classifying deviations from social norms as pathological or illness-related. This can concern sexuality, gender identity, relationship for…

Blackmailing

Blackmailing literally means extortion and, in a BDSM context, usually refers to a consensual role play involving threats, pressure, or simulated coercion. Typi…

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FTN - female to neutrois

The abbreviation FTN or F2N stands for Female to Neutrois and describes a trans identity in which a person who was assigned female at birth identifies as neutro…

Zettai Ryōiki

Zettai Ryōiki is a term from Japanese otaku and manga/anime culture. It refers to the strip of skin between a short skirt or shorts and over-the-knee socks, as …

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Sex Repulsed

Sex repulsed means that a person experiences sex as unpleasant, repelling, distressing, or disgusting. Related terms include “sex averse” and “apothisexual,” al…

Safe

In a sexual context, “safe” usually means protected sex. It refers to sexual activity in which measures are used to reduce the risk of unintended pregnancy and …

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Faggot

“Faggot” is an English slur for gay men. In German, it is often borrowed directly; the Germanized form “Fagott” is not appropriate here because it is also the n…

Please include a photo

“Please include a photo” is a note in a personal ad or when making first contact, meaning that the person replying should attach a photo. The advertiser wants t…

Viennese oyster

The Viennese oyster is an extreme sexual position in which the legs of the person lying on their back are brought far back or crossed behind the partner’s head.…

Rec sex

Rec sex is short for “recreational sex” and refers to sex that is pursued mainly for pleasure, spontaneity, or fun, without necessarily involving a committed re…