BDSM Sex Dictionary
St. Andrew’s Cross / André’s Cross
In general usage, the St. Andrew’s Cross is best known as a traffic and warning sign, for example at railway crossings. In BDSM, however, it refers to a bondage…
Genderfae
Genderfae is a non-binary gender identity and a form of genderfluidity. People may describe themselves as genderfae when their gender changes or moves between d…
Nipple piercing
A nipple piercing is a piercing placed through the nipple or areola and can be worn by people of any gender. It is usually placed horizontally or vertically, de…
Slave Contract
A slave contract is a private agreement between Top and Bottom intended to give the relationship a more defined framework. It may set out wishes, boundaries, ro…
Floor stocks
A floor stock is a fixed restraint or display device anchored to the floor. It visually resembles historical stocks and can be made of metal, wood or steel. In …
Hucow / Human Cow
Hucow, short for “human cow,” refers to an animal-roleplay scenario in BDSM or fetish contexts in which a person is placed in the role of a cow. Typical element…
Third Gender
The term “third gender” is used colloquially and historically to describe gender identities that do not fit neatly into the categories male or female. Some peop…
Anal bleaching
Anal bleaching refers to lightening the skin in the anal or intimate area using special creams or cosmetic treatments. The aim is to make darker skin areas appe…
Gender Role
A gender role is a set of social expectations about how people of a particular gender are supposedly meant to be, look, feel, or act. This includes ideas about …
Cover
In BDSM and dating contexts, a cover is an informed third person who is told about a planned meeting for safety reasons. Especially for first dates, meetings wi…